prayer request

I need prayer to help heal, restore and reconcile this 8 year relationship with my ex boyfriend. I want us to learn how to communicate better, for myself to let my guard down and not let the pain feom the past get in our relationship, and allow the viel to be taken of my ex partners eyes so he can truly see in an amazing person. also, i want him to feel respected by me and lead us to marriage together. he left me for not being emotional intimate and being too harsh and now he wants to be with soemone else. i hope the Lord can place the desire in his heart and change his heart and want a future and family with me as planned. i pray to get him back, and for him to want to start a new start togther and marry each other